Enduring Grief: For the widow and widower club - a club no one cares to join. Membership is by default.
When the death of my husband left me stoic and numb, it felt like I was drowning in my small corner of the world. In 2010, I suddenly belonged to the widow club, a club no one chooses to join. This new identity created a shock to my heart, body and mind. After losing my husband to an eight-year illness, I faced the daunting reality of keeping my head above water, while navigating the emotional waves of widowhood, single parenthood and loneliness. Enduring grief is my journey through sorrow and heartache and provide support to women who find themselves in similar circumstances. Leaning on the counsel of friends and family, I was blessed with the rescue efforts of my community, a deeper faith in God and a steadfast hope for life beyond the grave. I hope to share insights of the widow fog, lessons I've learned, the type of strength to carry on, the healing hand of Jesus Christ, renewed purpose and a quiet joy in the simple treasures of life.
About the author:
Afton Zapata-Scow lives in Mesa, Arizona with her husband, Shaun. She is a teacher who loves writing children’s books for her students and grandchildren. Afton enjoys traveling with her husband to historical sites, especially U.S. capitol buildings and National Parks, drawing inspiration for her writing. Her memoirs include Enduring Miracles, Enduring the End, and Enduring Grief, which explore illness, loss, and healing. As a wife, mother, grandmother, and educator, Afton encourages others to persevere through faith, family, and hope, and to endure whatever challenges life brings.
